Conversational consent and the CS

There has been an increasing trend within SL for people to post comments in their Profile and / or Picks along the lines of:

“TOS Disclaimer: My IM’s are logged and might be distributed if i wish…”

Or

“Since Linden Lab demands this notification you are by this informed that all my IMs as well as Local Chat are logged to harddisc and that I will use the logs in any way I feel suitable. If you are uncomfortable with this you are free to avoid interacting with me.”

So how much weight do such comments actually carry? Do they actually conform to the Community Standards (and not the ToS, as many with such comments in their Profiles wrongly refer to)?

These questions can be answered simply and in the order given:

1. None whatsoever.

2. No.

Let’s see what the Community standards actually states (Section 4, Disclosure):

Residents are entitled to a reasonable level of privacy with regard to their Second Life experience. Sharing personal information about a fellow Resident –including gender, religion, age, marital status, race, sexual preference, and real-world location beyond what is provided by the Resident in the First Life page of their Resident profile is a violation of that Resident’s privacy. Remotely monitoring conversations, posting conversation logs, or sharing conversation logs without consent are all prohibited in Second Life and on the Second Life Forums. [emphasis mine]

The very clear implication here is that informed consent is required before such conversations are distributed. Informed consent is a two-way agreement. As such, posting a unilateral declaration of intent within one’s Profile does not absolve oneself of adherence to the Community Standards.

Note also, that at no point in the section is any caveat given that allows people to bypass it. There is no “unless otherwise indicated in an individual’s Profile” or “except where the individual monitoring and distributing conversations states XYZ in their Profile”.

Rather, all these comments actually achieve in the first instance, is to demonstrate the poster’s own woefully inadequate understanding of the Community Standards for the reasons stated.

Of course, there are exceptions to Section 4: as stated elsewhere in the CS, open chat is not regarded as a private conversational area. Similarly, where outright abuse is concerned, Section 4 does not mean a person cannot use a transcript of an IM conversation when filing an Abuse Report.

But really, that’s not what these disclaimers are about; rather they lean towards the individual posting them as being at the least insecure – if not potentially malicious in their intent – by posting such comments. Certainly for me, encountering someone for the first time who has such a statement in their profile leaves me feeling they are somewhat less than trustworthy and thus I pass on communicating with them.

I have to admit as well that the sheer hubris of people putting such comments in their Profiles – particularly those who have been in SL long enough to know better – does, to use the vernacular,  get right up my nose.

I’m not alone in this feeling, as friends have pointed out. To this end, a number of us have started posting the following (sometimes amended to suit our personal style) in our picks (with thanks to Yasmin Heartsdale for the original wording). If you feel the same way, I invite you to add it to your own Picks.

To those with comments about their “right” to distribute conversations logs, etc:

Linden Lab’s Community Standards state (Section 4: Disclosure): “Remotely monitoring conversations, posting conversation logs, or sharing conversation logs WITHOUT consent are all prohibited in Second Life and on the Second Life Forums.”  (Emphasis mine)

The key here is MY *informed* verbal / written consent, *not* your own misguided attempt to waive consent on my part.

Therefore, in the correct spirit of the CS, you are hereby informed that *UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES* do I give you consent to monitor, post, or share any private conversation involving me, *regardless* of any misguided language to the contrary contained in your Profile. ARs can and may follow should you choose to deem yourself above the CS.

Consider yourself forewarned and informed.

http://secondlife.com/corporate/cs.php

SL’s got talent #2

Second Life is an amazing environment for fostering creativity, be it for business, fashion or simply pleasure. A goodly while ago now, I started a little series looking at talent in SL, but never really followed up on it.

Well, today I’m changing that, I want to follow up on both Rena and Latexia by talking about the work of another outstanding artist it has been my great good fortune to meet: Himitu Twine.

Himitu is remarkable for a number of reasons. For a start, she is one of the warmest, caring people I’ve met in SL so far. From our first meeting she was friendly, approachable, warm  – someone who can instantly establish a rapport with you.

Secondly, she has one of the most stunning avatars I have seen in SL. Her look is simply amazing – as the self-portrait to the left more than demonstrates. The look – from skin (and tone) through make-up, hair and oufit is always nothing short of exquisite.

Thirdly, she is one amazing photographer – or more correct photo-artist, seamlessly blending avatar shots with both rl and rendered backdrops, weaving both together to create evocative and sensual works of art that each tell a story, with the story itself neatly summarised in a flowing caption. Encapsulating everything from period costume through fetish to high-concept science-fiction, Himitu’s works are simply breathtaking.

It wouldn’t be fair to reproduce more than a couple of her works here – they really should be seen over on her Flickr stream, where they flow together as a collage of artistic expression I personally find inspiring – and I invite you all to go and browse her work for yourselves.

However, there is one last image I must reproduce here; just a few days after meeting Himitu for the first time – a meeting of pure chance (or possibly serendipity) while browsing a shopping mall – she asked me if I would consider posing for her; a request that was in and of itself utterly flattering. Of course, ego demanded that I did just that; I had no idea what to expect, but to be honest, anything I had imagined would have faded into nothing when compared to the picture she unveiled to me earlier today – a picture that honestly moves me in ways that I cannot express. It is called Serenity and within it, Himitu has captured not only my avatar, but also my very genuine love of the Orient. That she has done so, and so perfectly, is testament not only to her skill as an artist – but also to her insight as a person. All I can do is thank her, deeply and sincerely and encourage all of you, again, to go and look at her work – and leave comments!

All images reproduced here are Copyright Himitu Twine and used here with her permission. They may not be reproduced through any medium or in any form, digital, mechanical or photographic, without the express permission of Himitu Twine.

Images in order:

  1. Chinese Study: Just a little study in composition
  2. Tarantula on the Roof: She was a hunter in a world where life is cheap
  3. Serenity: Don’t say anything, just feel the serenity in this place…

My grateful thanks to Himitu for her time and for allowing me to reproduce these images here.